Month: March 2023

An artists’ sanctuary, Provence lures in visitors with its sun-kissed landscapes and enviable climate. The ultimate romantic destination, it’s the perfect place to get lost in nature, in a slower pace of life, and experience the joie de vivre the South of France is renowned for. 

Read on to find the most romantic things to do in Provence, for your next fling in France!

Visit the Calanques National Park

Boats floating on the blue ocean by an island with a tall mountain under a blue sky. People are mingling on the beach.

The Calanques National Park near Marseille is an area of immense natural beauty. Spanning the coast between Les Goudes (otherwise known as the end of the world) and Cassis, the park is the first in Europe to envelop land, sea, and urban areas. Within the park, you’ll find incredible hikes, stunning beaches, fragrant natural flora, and underwater treasures too.

Set out for the day, pack your hiking shoes and a picnic, and start your trek from either Port Miou (at the eastern end), Calanque de Callelongue (at the western end), or the Luminy University (middle). These three trails will take you through some of the most breathtaking scenery in France.

Stroll among the fragrant lavender fields

Rows of purple lavender fields under a yellow sunset sky.

Without a doubt, the lavender fields of Provence are among the most beautiful attractions in the area, and cannot be missed if you’re visiting in summer. From late June the landscape is laced with purple rows of these fine flowers, and their unmistakable aroma fills the air.

The Valensole plateau is where you’ll find the most concentrated number of lavender fields, interspersed by sunflowers and sage. But you’ll also find lovely fields in the Luberon, and the Sault plateau is where to go in August, as the lavender blooms later in the higher altitude. Of course, the lavender fields also make the ideal backdrop for a romantic picnic for two, or for a keepsake portrait session.

PS: Check out this overview on Provence from Explore the Riviera.

Stroll through the markets of Aix-en-Provence

People shopping at a farmer's market on a busy street in France.
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Aix-en-Provence is known as market city, and once you visit, you’ll know why it earned this reputation. In the warmer months, market stalls spread up Cours Mirabeau and fan out into the city, every day of the week.

Each area has its own unique theme, starting with antiques around La Rotonde, easing into fashion and crafts as you walk down the tree-lined boulevard, and spreading into fresh food as you continue along to Place des Prêcheurs. You’ll also find a flower market in front of the Place de l’Hôtel de Ville and a daily food market at Place Richelme – perfect for grabbing goodies for a picnic to enjoy in one of Aix-en-Provence’s leafy parks.

Watch the sunset from a rooftop bar in Marseille

Boats float on a harbor by an empty street under a blue sky.

If you’re looking for the most romantic things to do in Marseille, head to the Vieux Port. It’s here you’ll feel a different kind of vibe than you’ll experience in the more refined cities of Aix-en-Provence or Avignon, but it’s one worth exploring if you want to experience the lively spirit of France’s second city.

After spending the day discovering the neighborhoods, museums, and markets that surround the inner city, head to a rooftop terrace to watch the sun sink over the Mediterranean. The Rowing Club is located at the end of the old harbour, opposite the MuCEM and offers a casual setting, often with live music and tapas to accompany your apéro.

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Hire a boat and cruise up the Verdon Gorge

People kayaking on a blue body of water in a canyon.

The Verdon Gorge is one of the most impressive natural attractions in Provence. The 50km long canyon can be explored from above – by car, bike or foot – or below, by boat. Take the latter option if you’re looking for the most relaxed journey. You can hire kayaks, pedal boats, or motorized boats from the jetty on the northern tip of the Lac de Sainte-Croix. Take one out for the afternoon, cruise up the canal, then come back to the lake and find a quiet corner to ‘drop anchor’ and go for a dip. 

Swim & sunbathe on a hidden beach

A boat floating on the water near the shoreline. People are sitting on the sand of the beach.

Provence is home to an incredible coastline, with some of France’s finest beaches. And despite its popularity, it’s still possible to find romantic coves and secluded spots to relax and while away the hours swimming and sunbathing. Some of these hidden beaches can be found on the Cote Bleue – the Cote d’Azur’s lesser-known sibling. Hike along the coast, in either direction, from Niolon to find the beaches only the locals frequent. Plage de la Pointe de Figuerolles is a favourite, as is the stunning Calanque de l’Everine.

Drive through the villages of the Luberon

Aerial view of a city filled with orange and peach colored buildings on a sunny day.

There are few more iconic, and romantic, things to do in Provence than driving through the hilltop villages of the Luberon. From the famous cobbled alleyways of Gordes, to the sunshine hues of Roussillon, to the understated elegance of Menerbes – they all have their own unique appeal.

Allocate at least a day, to allow yourself time to indulge in the French art of flaneur, and get lost in these ancient worlds that have been preserved and restored remarkably well. Pack a picnic to enjoy overlooking the valley, or pop into lunch at Bistrot le 5 (Menerbes), or L’Orangerie (at La Bastide in Gordes) to enjoy a romantic setting with unbeatable views. 

Sip fine wines at a French Chateau

Rose wine being poured into a glass next to cheese and bread surrounded by glass.

Besides food, the South of France is famous for its wine. And one wine in particular. Provence rose has a well-earned reputation around the world, and there are fewer better places to sample it than straight from the producers. The countryside in Provence is peppered with chateaux, so you won’t be hard-pressed to find one to pop into. But if you want to plan ahead, aim for Château La Coste north of Aix-en-Provence which delivers an entire art and wine experience, or head along to Chateau Gassier near Mont Sainte Victoire where you can buy a pre-made picnic and sip their signature rose among the vines.

Shop for antiques in L’isle-sur-la-Sorgue

Railing with flowerpots hanging along the edge leading to a bridge over a small river.

The antiques capital of France, L’isle-sur-la-Sorgue is the best place to go to pick up a unique keepsake or memento to remember your trip to the south of France. Browse the stalls for little treasures, before proceeding alongside the canals to the heart of the old town. It’s here you’ll find plenty more ways to part with your money in boutiques selling everything from handmade ceramics to authentic Marseille soaps.

The main market day (Sunday) transforms the town into a hive of activity, and after you’ve shopped up a storm, you can dine waterside on one of the bistro terraces. If you’re visiting in early August, don’t miss the annual floating market when locals dress up in traditional outfits and sell their wares directly from their boats.

Get carried away by art at Carrières de Lumières

A large pillar in the middle of a room where all of the walls are covered with famous artwork.
Editorial credit: Evgeny Shmulev / Shutterstock.com

Situated in an abandoned stone quarry, the Carrières de Lumières today hosts one of the most remarkable immersive art experiences in Europe. Each year, a single theme is brought to life through images and sound to create an encompassing experience for the senses. Former exhibitions have included Picasso, Van Gogh, and Dali among others.

Located in the medieval village of Les Baux de Provence, the experience can go hand in hand with a walk through one of France’s (official) most beautiful villages. Don’t forget to also visit the Chateau des Baux de Provence to immerse yourself in another side of the region’s history.

Cycle around the island of Porquerolles

Exterior of a pink building covered in bright flowers. A bench sits in front of the building.

The island of Porquerolles is situated just off the coast of the coast of Provence, near Hyeres. A doable day trip, but a more enjoyable short break destination, the car-free island is an unspoiled gem in the Mediterranean. Take your bike (or hire one there) and spend your days beach hopping, visiting the island’s vineyards, or hiking through eucalyptus forests and olive groves. 

Pink lakes and pink birds in the Camargue

Flamingos walk in the water near grass.

There’s no mistaking pink as a colour of romance, so if you’re looking to up the ante, why not plan a trip to the Camargue! Home to pink lakes and thousands of pink birds, it’s sure to leave an impression. Start with a trip to the Salin d’Aigues-Mortes, the salt lakes that turn pink from the algae present in the water, Dunaliella Salina. Nearby, swarms of greater flamingos gather at the marshlands of the Camargue. To see their natural beauty up close, head to Parc Ornithologique where you can walk around the lakes on a wooden pathway. The birds are wild, but you’ll find hundreds of them grazing in the muddy marshes if you visit in the warmer months.

Stay somewhere lovely: Romantic Places to Stay in Provence

The Luberon is the best place to stay if you’re looking to experience the romantic nature of Provence. And luckily it’s brimming with decadent hotels and B&B’s where you can indulge and relax. 

La Bastide de Gordes is famously lavish, and offers visitors the ultimate in luxury. If that’s not quite fitting your budget, Le Clos du Buis in Bonnieux offers a more intimate stay in authentic surroundings. 

Alternatively, just south of the Luberon, with easy access to Aix-en-Provence you can live out your French fantasy by staying in the exquisite Chateau de Fonscolombe. With grand gardens, and its own onsite vineyard, you’ll never want to go back to ‘real life’


About the author: Nadine Maffre is the creator of Le Long Weekend. A New Zealand-native, she now calls Provence home and she loves to help others discover the best of the region through her Provence travel guides, and her free Provence Travel Planning group.


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Are you looking for Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples? Relationship conversation starters and couples games like Never Have I Ever, Would You Rather, and How Well Do You Know Me are fantastic ways to dig a little deeper and learn a little more about the person you’re with in a fun and interesting way.

Some couples Never Have I Ever questions are lighthearted and a little silly, while others can get deeper and of more significance. Skip around and choose the ones that feel right for where you and your partner are; you don’t want to ask a question you don’t really want to know the answer for!

Communication is important in relationships, but that doesn’t mean it always has to be serious. Have fun and communicate while playing relationship games like Never Have I Ever!

How Do You Play Never Have I Ever for Couples

Many people play Never Have I Ever as a drinking game, where the first person states “Never Have I Ever___” and if they actually have done the thing, they drink, and the other person must also drink if they have done that thing, but there are alternatives to this!

Make it a healthier version of couples Never Have I Ever by replacing the drinking with a little physical activity, like 5 sit-ups or push-ups. For example: you start by saying “Never have I ever used a partner’s toothbrush” and if you have used a partner’s toothbrush, you have to do 5 sit-ups. If your partner has also used a partner’s toothbrush, they must do 5 sit-ups too, but if they haven’t, they don’t.

If you want to make it a little risque, you could even turn your Never Have I Ever couples game into a strip version where instead of taking a drink, you must remove an article of clothing!

You could also play for points, where X amount of Never Have I Evers = an agreed-upon favor or deed of some sort, like a back massage or a special date somewhere. The best part about couples games like Never Have I Ever is that you get to modify it and personalize it to fit your relationship. 

However you tailor your Never Have I Ever game for couples, have fun getting to know each other on a deeper level. This is also a great addition to many of these date ideas here. Enjoy!

Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

A man and a woman sit in a cafe having fun with relationship Never Have I Ever Questions
Relationship Never Have I Ever questions is a great way to get to know your significant other on a deeper level.

  1. Never have I ever lied to my partner about where I was.
  2. Never have I ever cheated on someone I was dating.
  3. Never have I ever stolen from someone I was dating.
  4. Never have I ever broken up with someone by text.
  5. Never have I ever ghosted someone I was dating.
  6. Never have I ever pretended to like something my date likes just to impress them.
  7. Never have I ever been jealous of one of my partner’s friends.
  8. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s phone or computer.
  9. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get a free meal.
  10. Never have I ever flirted with someone while in a committed relationship.
  11. Never have I ever gotten into a physical fight with a partner.
  12. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.
  13. Never have I ever had a crush on a teacher.
  14. Never have I ever played strip poker with a significant other.
  15. Never have I ever been in a threesome.
  16. Never have I ever lied about my sexual history to a partner.
  17. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.
  18. Never have I ever had sex on a first date.
  19. Never have I ever regretted breaking up with someone.
  20. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
  21. Never have I ever lied about being busy to avoid spending time with my partner.         
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  22. Never have I ever had feelings for someone else while in a relationship.
  23. Never have I ever gone through my partner’s things without their knowledge.
  24. Never have I ever used sex as a bargaining tool.
  25. Never have I ever dated someone just because they were wealthy.
  26. Never have I ever had an affair with a married person.
  27. Never have I ever gone on a blind date.
  28. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too clingy.
  29. Never have I ever lied about my age to a partner.
  30. Never have I ever pretended to be interested in a partner’s hobbies just to keep the peace.
  31. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my feelings.
  32. Never have I ever ignored a partner’s texts or calls and then lied about it.
  33. Never have I ever been in a polyamorous relationship.
  34. Never have I ever dated someone significantly older or younger than me.
  35. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s partner.
  36. Never have I ever joined the Mile High Club.
  37. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my job or education.
  38. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t have enough money.
  39. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my past relationships.
  40. Never have I ever pretended to be someone I’m not to impress a partner.

    A couple sits and has coffee together while playing a relationship version of Never Have I Ever
    Relationship games like Never Have I Ever can be as serious or as lighthearted as you want to make it.

  41. Never have I ever been cheated on.
  42. Never have I ever gone on a date just to make a crush jealous.
  43. Never have I ever lied to a partner about my intentions.
  44. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their political beliefs.
  45. Never have I ever been on a dating app or website.
  46. Never have I ever cheated on a partner emotionally.
  47. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my feelings for someone else.
  48. Never have I ever given a fake compliment to a partner.
  49. Never have I ever lied about my income to a partner.
  50. Never have I ever had a partner lie about their sexual history.
  51. Never have I ever been in a serious relationship that lasted over a year.
  52. Never have I ever sent a flirty text message to someone other than my partner.
  53. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my family or upbringing.
  54. Never have I ever snooped through my partner’s social media accounts without their permission.
  55. Never have I ever used my partner’s toothbrush without telling them.
  56. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my religious beliefs.
  57. Never have I ever dated someone who my friends or family didn’t approve of.
  58. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t speak the same language as me.
  59. Never have I ever had a secret crush on someone while dating someone else.
  60. Never have I ever written a love letter I regretted.
  61. Never have I ever dated someone I didn’t really connect with just because I found them physically attractive.
  62. Never have I ever flirted with someone to get what I want.
  63. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my health or medical history.
  64. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my sexual preferences or desires.
  65. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they did or didn’t want children.  
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  66. Never have I ever pretended to be single when I was in a relationship.
  67. Never have I ever ignored my partner’s feelings or needs for my own selfish reasons.
  68. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my financial situation.
  69. Never have I ever fallen in love at first sight.
  70. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my plans for the future.
  71. Never have I ever used a dating app while in a committed relationship.
  72. Never have I ever kept a secret from my partner that I knew would hurt them if they found out.
  73. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person didn’t get along with my friends or family.
  74. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone close to an ex just to get revenge.
  75. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my level of education.
  76. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone who was already in a committed relationship.
  77. Never have I ever lied or been lied to about my or my partner’s criminal past.
  78. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t like the same music or movies as me.
  79. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my nationality or ethnicity.
  80. Never have I ever been in a relationship where the other person was significantly more or less physically active than me.
  81. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my drinking habits.
  82. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too intense or emotional.

    A couple asking Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples is smiling as they sit at a table outside
    Never Have I Ever questions for couples can be played pretty much anywhere, too.

  83. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my career goals.
  84. Never have I ever dated someone who was significantly more or less sexually experienced than me.
  85. Never have I ever flirted to get out of a difficult conversation with a partner.
  86. Never have I ever accidentally fallen asleep while being intimate with someone.
  87. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my living situation.
  88. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they didn’t share my hobbies or interests.
  89. Never have I ever lied about my relationship status on social media.
  90. Never have I ever dated someone who had different political beliefs than me.
  91. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my dietary restrictions.
  92. Never have I ever broken up with someone because they were too busy or not available enough.
  93. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping on a date.
  94. Never have I ever been in a serious long-distance relationship.
  95. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship with my ex.
  96. Never have I ever stayed in a relationship longer than I should have because I was afraid of being alone.
  97. Never have I ever dated someone who my family disapproved of.
  98. Never have I ever lied to my significant other about my feelings towards their friends or family.
  99. Never have I ever ghosted someone after a first date.
  100. Never have I ever dated someone for their money or status.
  101. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my true feelings towards something important to them.
  102. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone just to get entry somewhere.
  103. Never have I ever lied to my partner about my relationship history.
  104. Never have I ever broken up with someone because of their appearance.
  105. Never have I ever accidentally told a lie about something important to my partner that I never came clean about later.
  106. Never have I ever broken up with a significant other to date someone close to them.
  107. Never have I ever hired a private investigator to look into the person I was dating.
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There are lots of great ways to deepen and strengthen a relationship, and playing games like Would You Rather and Never Have I Ever for couples is a fun way to dig a little deeper into your lives. It can also be a fun way to feel out the state of your relationship.

Have fun out there!

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Amy Hartle is the author of Do You Love Me? How To Stop Seeking Reassurance in Relationships, a book on reassurance seeking and relationship anxiety. Both her book and this blog are born of personal experience; Amy shares expert relationship advice from the lessons learned during her own 10+ years with her husband, as well as couples travel tips and romantic getaway recommendations, all gleaned while traveling the world together.